HOPING AND WISHING

The verbs hope and wish are used very differently in English because they imply very different degrees of possibility.

We HOPE for things or events that are POSSIBLE or LIKELY TO HAPPEN if we do whatever is necessary to make them happen or the right circumstances exist. Study these sentences based on"Why the Baby Says Goo." Pay close attention to verb tense after present tense "hopes" and past tense "hoped." The tenses within the sentence are CONSISTENT.

The old woman hopes that the chief will visit her wigwam and meet Wasis. (a real future possibility)
The old woman hopes that the chief realizes there is one more powerful than he. (a real possibility now or in the extended present time.)
The old woman hoped that the chief would learn a lesson from the baby. She hoped he would become less arrogant. (a real possibility in the past)

Learn this rule: When the verb hope is in the present tense, the verb in the following noun clause may be present or future tense because we hope for things that are or will be possible at a present or future time. When the verb hoped is in the past tense, the verb in the noun clause is also past tense . Follow the sequence of tense rule: present tense is followed by present or future; past tense is followed by past tense.

We WISH for things or events that are NOT PROBABLE. In other words, they are UNLIKELY TO HAPPEN. Study these sentences from "The Little Daughter of the Snow." Pay close attention to verb tense in the noun clause after wish. Read across the table.

The expression of a wish for
an UNREAL or UNLIKELY situation
THE REALITY
An old man and his wife wish they could have a child. But they can't.
The old man and his wife wish the snow girl would stay with them. But she won't.
The old man and his wife wish they hadn't tricked the fox. But they did.
The old man and his wife wish they had been more generous. But they weren't.


It is clear from the examples above that the information in the noun clause after the verb wish expresses a desire for something that is different from reality, or for something unreal. To express unreal present, use the past tense. To express the unreal past, use the past perfect tense.

NOTE: When we wish for the unreal present or the unreal past, the form for the verb be is were. The past tense verb wished and the verb were represent simultaneous past time (Not earlier past time). In the table below, the verb were shows simultaneous time with the verb wish and the verb wished. The past perfect form (had been) signals an earlier past time.

They wish she were with them again. They wished she were with them again.
They wish they were happier. They wished they were happier
To express Earlier Past Time in the noun clause, use Past Perfect They wish/wished they hadn't been so selfish.

Learn this rule: In general, use the past tense in a noun clause after the verb wish. Use the past perfect tense in a noun clause after the verb wished.

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